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Cursed? Assistance with diagnosis.

I have recently had an acquaintance, whom I told I was Wiccan, come to me and tell me he thinks he may be cursed and was seeking help regarding the matter. Well, I don't know a lot about curses, it's a big blind spot on my radar, so I suppose I can take his question and turn this into a sort of learning situation.

First off, I want to know if he is cursed, so that I may help him. I asked him to describe the situation and he said his family members, and/or other people he cares for kept becoming harmed or ill at the worst times. He says he thinks he knows a person who would do that to him as well. Is he cursed? Do I need information?

And secondly, I just want to know more on curses in general, any information (as long as it's credible) will help.
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    Flammeous {De Empress}

    ·°Ceti~ {Charity} 

    What I wrote about chaos, is in fact coming from someone who has experienced all that you have mentioned.  So you tell me.

    Blessings....

    - Flammeous


    ·°Ceti~ {Charity} said:

    Not all chaos is good chaos, Flammeous, which the kind of chaos I'm referring to would be a traumatic experience like rape, abuse, child molestation. What is to be learned from that other than fear? These things scar people, scar , shape, transforms a persons life for the rest of their days. It affects the way their mind thinks, they may be happy go lucky, and then after said incident they turn wildly depressed, pessimistic, and overly catious. Are these meant to be learned from, to make a person stronger?

    My apologies if this is off topic. Just something that I had come to mind.

    Love and blessings -Charity
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    ·°Ceti~ {Charity}

    I would like to say more, privately, if you wish to send me a message. I can't do so from my phone.

    My love and the Lord and Lady's blessings to you.
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    Elia V

    Four sources of attack ~ 

    1) Spirits acting in retribution for an offensive action.

    2) Stumbling into places of power (unprepared) and being affected by their ambiance.

    3) Broken vows in our occult practice.

    4) Attacks from other practitioners.

    Like the other comments, I agree it's not likely he is cursed, (this is indeed very rare) not unheard of but rare. and most curses date back centuries and mostly affect land (should you be living on that land, then yes you would be affected).

    I believe one of the first things you should learn is grounding, centering, and protecting yourself. Learn how to do daily banishing's. Shielding is also a good way to defend.

    I will add it takes a very experienced Witch to end or reverse a curse. If he truly believes he may be cursed he needs to learn how to shield and protect himself. Do some research.