One thing that doesn't often get brought up about binding spells is that you are forging a connection between yourself and this person...so my first question for you is, if this person is hurting you or has the potential to cause you harm, why would you want to make a long-term connection with this person? Wouldn't you want to get them out of your life or away from you instead?
The first thing to start with before you go reaching for magic, and especially when it is obvious that you are new to magical workings, is to take mundane steps to protect yourself. If you think someone is trying to harm you have you discussed this with your family? Have you spoken to the police? Do you try to avoid places where this individual might be? And are you really certain this person is out to harm you or could it be that you are reading too much into this situation?
In addition, a spell should always be crafted to fit the specific situation. Frankly we don't know enough about what your situation actually is to be able to speak to your problem.
hmm...I'll try that.so u think the best tool for this should be a pepper spray? :)
And he doesn't threaten in the messages..so i don't have proof..because i never recorded his threats on the phone :(
sorry for sounding stupid about the whole thing though..I was feeling really helpless and thought there should be another way to deal with this....instead of thinking clearly about the whole thing.
Family and police. Best magic for this situation I'm afraid.
But as said in the posts above, work some protection for your self too.
But remember that the best tool an abuser has, is secrecy, tell others close to you, show them the messages etc. And his power over you will fade, now that's magic.
Good luck and blessings.
While on the topic of banishing, how does one properly dispose of a love nation sack?
I understand exactly what you feel. I am looking for ways to spiritually protect myself from someone but when all is said and done, I know my family and the police will eventually have to help me. Work some magick for yourself, but someone from this site also advised me that the police are best in this situation. I won't buy a handgun, my neighbor suggested to put down the mace and buy some wasp and hornet spray. :) I hope things get better for you!